Showing posts with label Resources. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Resources. Show all posts
2 comments Friday, December 5, 2008

I've already posted this entry in early May, but the formatting was choppy. In posting the entry yesterday on the True Woman Conference, though, I had an idea for how I could post the list in a more appealing, more organized way. The original post follows, although, I did make a few changes.

Last year when I got back from Tanzania I wrote a list of the characteristics that I think every Christian man should exemplify. I was motivated to do this having worked with some tremendous men who displayed amazing character and vision and love for Jesus Christ. Furthermore, a girl I was working with commented that she respected the biblical man I described. I figured I would share these characteristics.

Another thing to note is that these come from the mind of a single guy. I've never dated a girl so I'm not basing these assertions on any BGR experience. You may compare them to the list of 13 characteristics (the first six and the final seven) of manhood that Albert Mohler wrote up, which he relates heavily to married life.

They're not grouped according to importance. Some of them are abstract (e.g., 35) but most of them are practical (e.g., 2). But they're not grouped this way either. I aimed to group them topically.

Sorry the list is so long. That notwithstanding, please give me feedback.

The Lord's men are those who:

1.

are steadfast in honesty and reliable in their follow through;

2.

always wear the same face knowing that God is omnipresent;

When I say this I am speaking against people who get serious, humble and servant-like when they are in leadership but who are rowdy, immature and self-interested when not in that leadership role. People should follow their male leaders because of who they are, not the example that they display from "9 to 5."

3.

learn from their mistakes;

4.

admit their weaknesses and get help when they need it;

5.

take good help when it is needed and offered;

I often struggle with a saviour-complex. Men need to be humble enough to give others who are blessed with talents—especially talents that these men do not have—the opportunity to serve where they have been blessed without fearing the possibility that the spotlight of leadership may dim as the leader takes less responsibility; men should take on leadership "not to please man, but to please God" (1 Thessalonians 2:4).

6.

give others the chance to excel;

7.

do not fear those smarter, more talented, more experienced, or more knowledgeable than them;

8.

step up to encourage those around them;

9.

make time for the people they're leading;

I'm writing this having returned from South East Africa project (hereafter referred to as SEA) interning (i.e., a leadership role). On top of that, for the Adventure Cycle (a one week component of SEA where teams went to different regions in Tanzania and show the evangelistic movie The Jesus Film) I led a team. From that I noticed that it's important to take care of the people who are being led by us which is very difficult if you are disconnected from them. On top of that, this important character trait of the Lord's men implies that men who are in leadership need to take time to connect with the people who are difficult to get to know whom they are leading. This needs to be done in order to serve the whole team. Ignoring the tough-to-get-to-know person has the highest probability of making him feel neglected (having been this type before in the past, I state with confidence neglected people always know that they are being neglected) which leads to bitterness. One bitter person can bring the whole team down. Illustration: One mouldy slice of bread put in with any loaf of bread quickly ruins the whole good loaf.

10.

share their strength with others;

When someone is feeling dismayed by circumstances but the man is not discouraged at all, muster up a strategy to explain why there is hope, why it is better to not worrying about it, or even distract the discouraged person from his circumstances by talking about something that will bring the person's mind somewhere else.

11.

are able to look long and hard for ways to relate to the most difficult men;

12.

do not give up, but who are able to persevere, especially around the people they lead;

13.

steadfastly never complain without taking action;

It's useless to complain and do nothing, in fact, it is destructive. Others might see the merits of the complaints and become discouraged. My personal opinion is to never complain in public, especially to people you are leading. People love watching leaders improve situations. So if a man complains about the situation, he had better be ready to set an example of working towards solutions instead of being those Israelites wandering the desert grumbling.

14.

are courageous;

15.

are patient;

16.

are generous and sacrificial;

17.

are fair;

18.

are compassionate;

19.

genuinely love their parents;

20.

recognize that they need to lead women;

21.

honour women in their personal thoughts;

This is referring to sexual purity with respect to the man's personal thoughts. Every woman was created in the image of God (Genesis 1:26) and men's sisters in Christ are temples of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:19). Treat them as such.

22.

never flirt with women;

This might raise controversy. I think that flirting is immature and completely inappropriate for men (women too, but I'll leave that issue for those more qualified to deal with). If a man is interested in a woman then he should initiate something with her—not keep her guessing. And if he's not interested in her then he shouldn't treat her in a special way. If you wouldn't do it to a guy, don't do it to a girl. An example of this deals with men's playing around with women's clothes. At the beach it might be tempting to steal a girl's shoes and tease her with it. A man wouldn't do this with a guy because the reaction isn't appealing; it only feels good coming from a girl. On top of that, it is easier to do it to a girl because by and large men are physically bigger and stronger than women, which makes it easier to do. Each of these reasons for acting in this way is unacceptable.

**Update: I no longer agree with the characteristic stated here. The note more accurately represents me, but I have still moved on to different convictions since writing these 36 characteristics nearly a year and a half ago. I'm not deleting this point because I don't want to change the spirit of this post from the original one in May. You can see the comment I made in this post for a little more data, if you're interested.**

23.

treasure deep friendships with brothers in Christ;

The Church is being weakened because men have not made enough deep connections with brothers who can sharpen them (Proverbs 27:17) but often sacrifice it for deep connections with women, which makes personal growth in manhood ambiguous (i.e., if a guy hangs out with girls all the time, they'll sharpen them in the ways of the Lord, but not into biblical manhood since they cannot experience that together as they are women, not men!). Men need men. And they should not be ashamed of these relationships.

24.

greatly value the men in their lives who are their role models;

25.

have hearts for the lost, broken, and abandoned;

"Jesus wept" (John 11:35). The ultimate man cried. Men should not be ashamed to have convictions that lead them to tears. It is not a weakness.

26.

privately rebuke;

This important character trait has two implications: 1) That men should rebuke; and 2) that they should do it in private so as to not humiliate those who err.

27.

never cut others down (especially not to make a point);

28.

naturally cast vision, not only out of necessity, but out of deep conviction of heart;

29.

lead others to prayer;

30.

respect authority;

Men need to learn to submit themselves to rules, especially the ones that they do not understand or that they disagree with (provided these are not going against God's commands) in order to demonstrate how they want to be treated when they lead.

31.

lead out in doing the tasks that none want to do;

32.

oppose indecision and inaction at every challenged faced;

In most occasions decisions must be made and action must be taken. Fear of being wrong is not an excuse for doing the contrary. If others are not willing to do both, step up as one of the Lord's men, make a decision and act.

33.

never demand anything based on their own merit;

Too often it's, "I need," which is fair; men have needs. But men may not (i.e., are not allowed to) demand it. Men deserve hell (Romans 6:23). It is rude and unloving to expect that a man should be given his every need because he exists. God gives and He takes away at His leisure (Job 1:21). To state this positively, in humility, ask for your daily bread.

34.

know the Word of God;

35.

glorify God with their lives;

36.

attribute their every gift and success to their King.

Update: I've added a clarification on number 22.

0 comments Thursday, December 4, 2008

"It's not about going back to the nineteenth century; it's about going back to the Scriptures." Albert Mohler said something like that on his radio program on November 25th, in reference to complementarian Christian women asserting that they want to start a counter-cultural movement where it is acknowledged that there is a difference in the roles that men and women are to enter into. He said that when he read the True Woman Manifesto (I'll get to it in this post), he got the impression that if a Christian woman in the 19th century were reading it, she would wonder why the document was written. It would be like a duh moment. The goal of the complementarian movement is not to make people old fashioned. The goal is to be biblical.

On the program, he was talking with Mary Kassian, professor at Southern Seminary, Canadian, author and speaker (and the first person to get a post with the "Character" label on my blog). On it, they were talking about the True Woman conference that happened back in mid-October, where about 6300 women went to listen and interact about biblical lessons on gender, and more specifically, femininity. They talked a fair chunk about the document I mentioned above. Mrs. Kassian wants to see 100 000 women sign the document internationally. That's my hope for many of the girls who read this blog, that maybe you would sign it.

I mostly wrote this post because I liked what Mohler said so much. Evangelical feminism is brand new, less than a hundred years old. It's coming out of the culture of radical feminism, not the Bible. If egalitarianism were biblical it would have emerged in Church history at some point earlier. It didn't. Biblical gender is not about going back to the cave man days, but it's about being biblical.

Below is the audio that's from the conference. I hope you listen to it. I've only listened to the panel discussion and Mrs. Kassian's first talk so far, but I'm going to read the rest soon. I highly recommend her talk.

Thursday, October 9

The Ultimate Meaning of True Womanhood
Pastor John Piper

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From Him, Through Him, To Him
Nancy Leigh DeMoss

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Friday, October 10

You've Come a Long Way, Baby!
Mary Kassian

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A Resolve to Believe
Karen Loritts

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A Woman After God's Own Heart
Janet Parshall

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God's Jewels
Joni Tada

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Saturday, October 11

Panel Discussion
Mary Kassian, Holly Elliff, Karen Loritts, Barbara Rainey, Carolyn McCulley

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For Such A Time As This
Nancy Leigh DeMoss

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0 comments Tuesday, November 11, 2008

Yesterday I listened to part of a panel discussion on the relationship between Israel and the Church, and how Christians should think about the modern conflict in Israel/Palestine. In it, Paige Patterson was called the Luther of the Southern Baptist Convention (hereafter SBC). As the SBC was drifting closer and closer to, en masse, denying its confessional roots of biblical inerrancy, Paige Patterson said that they needed to follow their confession, the Baptist Faith and Message, and keep biblical inerrancy. Al Mohler says that there was a time when speaking the name of Paige Patterson would send a shiver down the spines of any liberal in the SBC, like the name of Mufasa gave shivers to the hyenas in The Lion King.
 
As a humourous note, Dr. Patterson quickly shed the title of Luther, saying that he was pro-Israel, in contrast to Luther's anti-semitism. In fact, many have blamed Luther (even some Christians, specifically, some extreme dispensationalists), and thus, protestantism (covenantal amillennialists, in particular), for the Holocaust.
 
It got me thinking about how great it would be to have conservatives in some of those liberal denominations who could rock the boat and direct their people to the Bible. Then I was reminded of what JI Packer is going through right now. I couldn't help but pray for him, his church, and the Anglican Church of Canadian.
 
Anyway, there are tons of exciting things that we can pray for. It's great being in MPD time right now, because I get the chance to pray for them. Pray for...
  • the gang lords and drug dealers in the Jane and Finch area (Toronto gang hotspot) to find Christ.
  • abortion doctors to be converted. Similarly, pray that a Canadian will be raised up who will fight for the unborn as William Wilberforce fought for enslaved Africans.
  • University physics professors to know the true age of the earth, biology professors to know where humans came from, philosophy professors to know that absolutes exist and religion professors to know that the Bible is from God, so that they stop leading generation after generation of students astray.
  • the United Church of Canada, the Anglican Church of Canada and the other liberal protestant denominations to have a revolution within themselves where they find themselves more conservative (i.e., believing the Bible).
  • a theological thinker of the weight (not literally) and stature of Augustine to be given to Canada. I mention this one recalling that Mark Dever, when he visited the tank where Ambrose baptized Augustine, prayed for God to let him take part in calling great men to the ministry of the Word.
  • the tens of thousands of immigrants moving to Canada every week to come to faith; there could be such an amazing foretaste of heaven, of every nation, tongue and tribe, within these borders.
  • your pastor's sermons to be published in the local newspaper every week, as Charles Spurgeon's were, reaching so many people in your community with the Gospel.
And these are just for Canada, though most of them could be prayed for any country of the world. It's fun thinking about things that seem hopeless, such as the violence and crime that happens in the Jane-Finch area, where it seems like nothing we do can stop it from happening, and then praying for God to go ahead of us and make it better.
 
Join me in praying for these things.

4 comments Wednesday, October 22, 2008

There were two posts on Justin Taylor's blog today talking about the importance of not voting for a pro-choice candidate. One, the second, had a YouTube video on it, that I'd seen before. Recently my brother had a son. He was the first newborn I'd ever been around. He was remarkably small and fragile. I'd been around babies who were a few months old before, but never one three days old. As I watched the video, there was an aborted baby (starting at 3:11) who I could completely see my nephew in (although, watching the video a second time to find the time index, I noticed that they weren't overly comparable, but I could still imagine my nephew being that size). I dislike the hyperbole (at 0:59), "and no one seems to care," because it's so unhelpful at sympathizing with truth. But that notwithstanding, I think the video is helpful, otherwise.




Tristen Lance Eddy (5 days old, b. Sept. 24, 2008)

3 comments Wednesday, October 8, 2008

This will not be a common practice on this blog, so as to not steal Meredith's blogging style.

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While scripting in my head a possible blog post, I used the word "intimate" (using the less commonly known definition of it: To make known subtly and indirectly). I wondered whether people would think that I was showing off since it's a word that's not in common use, which could easily be replaced by "imply" or another synonym that's more widely familiar. A friend once used a big word and he was criticized for it.

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I want to admit that I don't know anything about the pill. I said in an earlier post that I might share my thoughts about the birth-control pill. I don't have any. There, I've shared my thoughts. I think that I was trying to so more knowledgeable than I am. I apologize.

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Probably the biggest contention between Catholics and Protestants is the use of Scripture. Catholics would say that there are two infallible rules of faith, tradition and the written Scriptures. One of the tenets that Martin Luther fought for in the reformation was Sola Scriptura. It "teaches that the Scriptures are the sole infallible rule of faith for the Church" (taken from James White). Anyway, since the Catholics (claim) to rely on tradition, they introduce doctrines like the eternal virginity of Mary, purgatory or the infallibility of the Bishop in Rome (eventually dubbed the Pope), to name a few.

The one in particular I want to talk about is the dogmatic statement of Ark of the Covenant (Ex. 25:10-16; Hw. 9:4) as a type of Mary. (Read here about types.) Usually what a protestant would do upon hearing the rationale for thinking there's a biblical defense of the type (i. that both the Ark and Mary bore the Word of God; ii. in Ex. 40:34-38 and Lk. 1:15 God overshadows Mary and the Tabernacle, in which is the Ark), he criticizes how poor the biblical defense is. I think that this is dangerous. If (and I recognize that this is a very big "if") the Ark of the Covenant were a type of Mary, inspired by the Spirit, then the use of these biblical passages in this way is legitimate. What needs to be done first is show that the Roman Catholic Church has no innate authority, that it only has authority in the Word. Then show that the Scriptures don't suggest that the Ark is a type of Mary, so we don't need to look for verses to support it.

The reason I point this out is that if we fail to state that the Roman Church doesn't have the authority to dogmatize unbiblical types, jumping into pointing to the poor exegesis of Rome, then we suggest that's how Matthew's writings should be dealt with.

Matthew 2:15 says, "This was to fulfill what the Lord had spoken by the prophet, 'Out of Egypt I called my son,'" quoting Hosea 11:1. When you read the Hosea passage in context, the "son" being spoken of was clearly Israel. So, Matthew, under the inspiration of the Spirit, pointed out that Israel was a type of Christ. If it had been that God didn't inspire Matthew, then we should say that he's either a fool or a liar for misusing the OT like that. But God is essentially saying through Matthew, "I called Israel out of Egypt to make to make it look like history parallels my Son's life."

Rome could do that too if they actually had the authority to interpret the Church's history, but they don't.

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One of the reasons I hadn't posted in a while is because I'm still debating what the purpose my blog is. As I said, I have no intention in indulging in the feast of having your attention over my personal life, so this won't be a blog where I post diary entries. But, I still want my blog to be unique, offering you something that you can't get elsewhere, otherwise it would be wasting your time. So, while I've had a few ideas for posts, I didn't think I could offer something that hadn't been done before. I'm still thinking through this.

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Yes!

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Over Reading Week '05, I was studying 1 Corinthians. I came to the eighth chapter, verse 6. Part of it reads, "for us there is one God, the Father." That whole year I struggled with whether I agreed that the Bible supported the doctrine of Christ's divinity. When I came to this verse, it almost tipped me over the edge to heresy. Until last week I'd been uncomfortable with what I thought the implications of that verse were. If only the Father is God, how can Christ be God?

The other day, though, I heard James White explain that if you use the same logic on another part of the same verse, "for us there is ...
one Lord, Jesus Christ," then it implies that the Father is somehow God without being Lord, which is absurd. The verse actually implies the divinity of Christ!

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I also heard James White talk about how a Muslim recently argued that Jesus couldn't be God since He ran from His creatures when He was born. I think it's hilarious.

4 comments Thursday, September 11, 2008

Piper has announced that he's starting another expository, verse-by-verse sermon series. This one is going to be on the Gospel of John. I'm really excited by this. From listening to him explain the tough texts there, such as what water means in 3:5 ("Jesus answered, 'Truly, truly, I say to you, unless one is born of water and the Spirit, he cannot enter the kingdom of God'") or what it means for John the Baptist to not be Elijah (1:21; cf. Mt. 11:12-14), to being exposed to his thoughts on the textual issue of 7:53-8:11 (for more information read Dan Wallace say it is not inspired Scripture and read [in the fourth to eighth paragraphs] Mac say that it is inspired Scripture [I'm with Wallace, as his argument, in my assessment, is far more compelling than what Mac provides]), or to be fed the Gospel and hear of the Saviour's life from a Johannine perspective (Paul was very much so a thinker, whereas the Apostle John was a feeler). I await this series with much anticipation.

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I introduced a character here. I have great respect for Dan Wallace. He's a professor at DTS. The most amazing story that I've read (also read the sequels of the interview: parts 2, 3 and 4) about him was that he taught himself Greek from a textbook he'd written himself. In short, he suffered a form of amnesia, and forgot Greek, all the while, he was teaching a class on Greek. So he kept himself one lecture ahead of the students, teaching himself, essentially from scratch, from his own textbook. Neat. He's a great textual critic (the study/art of analyzing the manuscripts of the Scriptures that we have, trying to figure out what really is inspired), and he debated (the link is just a recap of the debate, not the audio) Bart Ehrman on the reliability of the New Testament manuscripts, being the uncontended victor of the match. Lastly, and this is almost completely irrelevant, Wallace believes that the Gospel of John was written before 70AD based on the structure mentioned in John 5:2 ("Now there is in Jerusalem by the Sheep Gate a pool ... which has five roofed colonnades" [emphasis added], it'll be interesting to see whether Piper comments on this), although it seems that he's in the minority on this view. The argument is over the implications of the tense of the word "is" in the passage.

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I haven't thought about the issue of the dating of John's Gospel for a while now. I had no intention of writing much on it, but now that I'm reading back on it, I've aroused my interest. As a perambulatory note, before entering this discussion, my leaning was to agree with Wallace. I respect him a lot. On the other side though, is D.A. Carson, for example. From a basic reading of the passage, I would immediately agree with Wallace. But the fact that there is disagreement over the passage makes me think that the English might betray some nuances of the Greek.

Another note, for full disclosure, I've only read one article dissenting from Wallace's view. The basic premise is that the author of that article has other reasons, mainly theological, to suppose that the Gospel was written after the destruction of the Second Temple in 70AD. From there, he interprets John 5:2. (This is fair, not necessarily correct, but certainly fair. Evangelicals use Romans 5:1 to interpret Jm. 2:24 and 1P. 3:21, for example.) So, to interpret John 5:2, the author produces two other verses where he thinks that the Greek verb (eimi) is used similarly (in a parallel fashion), where it is used in one tense to refer to a different time. (E.g., if the author is right, he would mean that when John wrote, "the structure that is there...," the Evangelist actually meant, "when I put myself back in Jesus' days, the structure that is there...".) The two parallels are John 10:8, "All who came before me are [eimi] thieves and robbers, but the sheep did not listen to them" (emphasis added), and John 19:40, "So they took the body of Jesus and bound it in linen cloths with the spices, as is [eimi] the burial custom of the Jews" (emphasis added, again). I don't really agree with the dissenting author, as I don't find these alleged parallels compelling, but I can somewhat see what he is talking about in the former (i.e., Jn. 10:8), the current thieves were (past tense) not listened to, but I still think that it's a stretch. All that said, I haven't read Wallace's article yet.

I report on this, only because I think that it's really interesting.

0 comments Sunday, August 31, 2008

Continuing right along, in the previous post I stated that I was going to say why a candidate being pro-life should be a big incentive for Christians to vote for a candidate. Piper calls himself a one issue voter on the matter of abortion. He can't imagine voting for someone who would authorize a doctor to kill a person. I agree with him on that. Russell Moore compares it to electing a president who wouldn't let blacks have the same rights as the rest of the American voters. He would never vote for that guy. I agree with that reasoning. Racism and infanticide are each evil attacks on the image of God in man. By that reasoning, I would never vote for the Democratic Party of America (as long as the pro-choice platform is one of their core convictions). Similarly, if I were American, I would be hard pressed to vote for McCain, knowing that he isn't as radically pro-life as I am. I would probably vote for an independent I could agree with.

Let me illustrate why I could never vote for the Democratic Party. Donald Miller (author of Blue Like Jazz) said that he was Republican for a while because of the pro-life issue, but then moved to being a Democrat when he saw that the Republicans weren't doing anything about the issue, and thought that they were only using the abortion issue to exploit the evangelical vote. (The claim that the Republicans have done nothing about abortion isn't entirely true. While Bill Clinton was president he made partial birth abortion, abortion that is performed on a baby that's in the process of being delivered, a baby that is minutes away from gaining personhood, legal, and President Bush undid that.) Even if Miller was right, voting Democrat would make abortion far more common and would make the tax payer pay for abortions (like we already do in Canada). Consider Barack Obama's stance on abortion: It's so extreme that he was one of the few to vote against the Born-Alive Infants Protection Act (most Democrats voted for the Act, as well as Republicans) which was to grant personhood to babies born in an abortion attempt. The Republicans might not undo any of the abortion legislation (which I don't agree with), but the Democrats will certainly try to make it worse. This is why I think it's important not to vote for a pro-choice candidate.

Now let me explain why I wouldn't vote for the Republicans if they have a pro-choice candidate, even if he's the lesser of two evils (as many American Republicans, speaking to evangelicals, would have said of Mayor Giuliani compared with Senator Clinton). If the Republicans were to win under a pro-choice candidate, it would send the message that the Republican base does not actually care about the issue of abortion as much as it cares about national security and about the economy. That would possibly divorce the Republican Party from the pro-life stance, which would be very difficult to go back on later. Instead, I would like the Republicans to lose if they have a pro-choice candidate, sending them the message that they need the support of pro-lifers to win elections.

Now, while I find it very easy to say that no pro-lifer should vote for the Democrats, I find it more difficult to say that no one should vote for McCain. There are justices on the Supreme Court who are ready to retire. If Obama wins this election, they'll probably retire and he will be able to appoint liberal justices to the bench who will claim to find amazing things in the constitution, for example, they might claim to find that the constitution protects children from spanking. They might claim to find that the constitution allows polygamy. You might say that's ludicrous, but the same thing happened for abortion! And then, letting Obama get into office would pretty much guarantee that he would legitimize, once again, partial birth abortion. It might be worth it to vote for McCain to prevent those things. And you might be able to argue that the stem cell issue isn't a big enough step to change the direction of the party. It might be true. I don't think this issue is a matter of right and wrong, instead, I think it's an issue of beneficial and unwise.

0 comments Saturday, August 30, 2008

Two days ago for my QT, I was reading out of 1 Samuel 1. The part I'd like to draw attention to was verses 12 to 18. "As [Hannah] continued praying before the LORD, Eli observed her mouth. Hannah was speaking in her heart; only her lips moved, and her voice was not heard. Therefore Eli took her to be a drunken woman" (vv. 1, 2). It struck me.

I said that a week ago I'd have posted a response to Piper. I haven't yet. (Obviously.) I started writing a response, but then didn't follow through because I was feeling convicted. I rushed to disagree with a brother in the faith (namely, John Piper), when I should have shown patience. I had written that I disagreed with Piper on when the authorities should use coercion to enforce biblical morality. As I was writing the follow-up post, I reflected more carefully on what Piper had written. I realized that I agreed with him. Like Eli, assuming that Hannah was a drunk, I assumed that Piper believed something foolish. I'm sorry for not serving you with more humility and graciousness. I will now elaborate.

Two weeks ago, I quoted Piper as saying, "[T]he Bible shows that we should not turn all of its commands into law. So [the] question boils down to, Well, which ones then? ... The way it works practically is that for the laws where we can get overwhelming consensus in the culture we're going to use coercion [(i.e., get the authorities to intervene)]." At first thought, I interpreted it as him saying that unless society seems to be going in that direction, we should not seek secular authority to enforce biblical morality on that issue. Which seems foolish. If that were the case, I would have asked whether William Wilberforce was in the wrong for going against the grain of society in trying to abolish slavery.

As I thought about it, I imagined in my mind a possible response the Piper could have given me: "I think that Wilberforce is as justified in his efforts against slavery, as I am in my attempts to raise awareness of the atrocity of (the attack on the glory of God in) abortion" (the bracketed bit is unnecessary, but it gives it a more Piper-esque tone). So he and I agree. The Church should point out errors in the worldview that the world around it is undertaking, and try to pursuade all that it is wrong, but never demand that it be enforced. I'm using the word "demand" here in a very specific way. The Church should strongly, persistently and convincingly argue that the state enforce an issue of biblical morality. However, the Church dare not expect that the government enforce the Church's morality based on her authority. The Church should work through democracy, not derail democracy and form some sort of theocracy.

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On the issue of policy, but not related to my previous post, I offer two new resources that I've found. The first is a lecture given by Dr. Russell Moore on the essential doctrines the Church must think through and apply as prerequisites before engaging in shaping politics. For example, he intimated that it is essential the eschatology (doctrine of end times) of the Church be thought through thoroughly. That is to say, it is important to know whether the Bible says that the Kingdom of God is completely here, in which case, the Church should reign, claiming Christ's authority, or whether the Kingdom of God has now and not yet aspects to it (i.e., the Church is a taste of the Kingdom of God, but the Kingdom won't be fully realized until Satan is finally defeated and the beatific vision [Re. 21-22] comes to be), in which case, the Church should be in the world (as Jesus was in the world) but not of the world. It's a good talk, although, it's not an easy lecture. I was writing thank you cards while listening to it and some of it went over my head.

Secondly, Southern had a debate on the application of the doctrine of the separation of Church and state. I haven't listened to any of it yet, but I am very much so looking forward to doing so. Hopefully it will give some good insights as to what morality is appropriate to bring into the public sphere. (E.g., should adultery every be suggested as something that the state should use its authority to prevent?)

3 comments Saturday, August 16, 2008

(This post is a response to a post on Lydia's blog about women serving in the church. The response is too long, in my mind, to justifiably be placed as a comment on her blog. Though the entry seems like a long one for my blog, follow the headings if you only want to read the essentials.)

Suppose that you have an isolated group of Christians, one well trained woman and some men who are unready for ministry. What is she to do knowing that God has ordained a separate role for women within the church than the men?

Maybe all that needs to be said is to listen to this talk given by Randy Stinson. The whole of the talk is him explaining what a husband and father's leadership in the family looks like. It should be very similar for an elder in a church. The talk is helpful for this discussion because in listening to what the man should be doing (i.e., leading), you get an idea of where a woman can justifiably step in (i.e., leading does not equate with doing everything so she can help when the leaders ask for that help, as long as it's within the bounds of Scripture [e.g., the leaders can't ask for her help to rob the bank when the church treasury is in the red]).

(The following paragraph is an encouragement to prepare for the long haul that does not contribute to the main thought of answering the question.)

Before saying anything, I think that it would take a lot of time to build a healthy church out of this. Church planting is tough. A woman, by herself, raising up unskilled men to plant a church: tougher. Furthermore, she might not even be getting them to plant a church. She might be going against their old paradigms, such as, possibly, Someone else will do it. When MacArthur went to shepherd Grace Community they had female elders there. It took quite some time to bring a biblical vision of church administration and leadership to his church. Dever, who also went to shepherd a church in need of a private reformation (when I use "reformation" in the context of a single local church, I mean one, where if you walked in, it might seem like they're playing church, they don't have a biblical structure for church leadership, the church doesn't deal with public sin, the preaching is unsystematic and possibly only loosely based on a text of Scripture, where they need to change a lot of the ways that they do ministry, thus, it needs a reformation), now pleads with pastors shepherding churches in need of reformation not to do it quickly, nor with a totalitarian style to it. So, if she's dealing with some men with baggage, it might take a long time. Fortunately, a church has that amount of time, five to ten years. A campus ministry, where your leaders are around for at most four years (i.e., a degree for five years minus the frosh year), is not a likely place for this reformation to be able to happen.

(Back to answering the issue.)

I was about to use the word "unqualified" where I wrote "unready" in the first sentence of the question paragraph, but I chose to use "unready" because I don't think that in every case it takes too much to be qualified. For example D.A. Carson said in a talk on elders that the churchmen in Derbe, Lystra, Iconium and Antioch of Pisidia couldn't have been believers very long before Paul and Barnabas "had appointed elders for them in every church" (Ac. 14:23). This suggests to me that they were simply relatively spiritually mature (i.e., they were spiritually mature in comparison to some of their brothers within the church).

With this in mind, I think that the woman should select two or three of the men who she sees are the (relatively) stronger believers. Then she should (gently) encourage that they be appointed the elders of that church. (This is where I think that the Stinson talk would prove helpful.) These men obviously want the church to exist (otherwise they wouldn't be in the picture). After she suggests that they should be part of it they'll leave, desiring to remain in complacency, or they'll stay, and, with fear and trembling, accept the task of building the church. These men can resource the woman and ask her help in setting church direction, as long as the responsibility and outcome rests on the shoulders of the men. The individual men can ask her help when doing Bible study preparation, or even in their quiet times in finding out what the Bible means.

Hopefully with much prayer and patience, the Lord would bless this entreprise.

(That's it for my suggestions. All of the following is my attempt to explain why I'm thinking in this way, from the Bible.)

The reason this is difficult is because we need to apply 1 Timothy 2:11-15 in a God-honouring, people-building way. The first observation that I would make is that the passage in question is referring to the local church and corporate worship within the body (read Grudem for the argument behind this claim). More specifically, I think that it's saying that elders (or pastors; same thing [cf. 1P. 5:1, 2]) may not be women (read Piper for his argument behind this claim). Otherwise, it's not very specific. I think that Paul deliberately left lots of room to work within. The woman, then, would be balancing giving as much help as possible to build the church, while neither giving the church the appearance of being led by a woman, nor of giving the members the feeling of reliance on female leadership that would become systemic and difficult to heal later on. For example, I think that the woman could legitimately do a lot, but she needs to be concerned about what the future outcome of her current actions will be: With what I am doing right now, will the church in the future be more feminine (and thus, less healthy) than if I take a step back now, slowing down the progress of the church, but investing in the long term health of the church? That might be the case.

For this reason, if there were other churches around in the area, or even in the next city over, I think that the wisest choice for the woman (for the sake of clarity, from, say, church A) would be to discern from among them a healthy church (say, church B) that would be able to help church A. She could then ask the elders of church B to offer the men of church A some guidance and help in building up their body (i.e., church A). This would show the importance of relying on male leadership, but would also give her church real and valuable help.

As a note, Mohler, for example, would say that 1 Timothy 2:12 prohibits women from speaking at C4C functions. Since Paul was specifically referring to the local church, I don't entirely agree. Paul was not specific, so, in trusting that the Scriptures are sufficient in their restrictions, we must believe that God is not opposed to women speaking at C4C meetings. (If you disagree with this, then, essentially, you're saying that 1 Timothy has wider applications than just within the church. Are there to be deacons in every C4C group? Are there to be weddings? Lists of widows? All in all, I don't think Paul is referring to outside of the local church, and I don't think that C4C is a church.) So it comes down to a question of beneficial and unwise, as opposed to right and wrong. So, while I think that it's beneficial to have as many male speakers as possible at C4C, I don't think that it's wrong to fill in the gaps with female speakers. (That was my attempt as Weekly Meeting Coordinator at Carleton.)

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I introduced three characters in this post. Randy Stinson is the president of the Council on Biblical Manhood and Womanhood and Dean of the School of Leadership and Church Growth at Southern. Sometimes he reminds me of Driscoll, making fun of guys who don't fit the Wild At Heart paradigm for men (i.e., guys who might cry, or wear pink – though Stinson is more apologetic in this case than Driscoll typically is, or who drink decaf coffee). Other than that, I find him helpful. He must be brilliant to serve under Mohler at Southern, though.

D.A. Carson is a professor at TEDS (i.e., Trinity Evangelical Divinity School, but I call it by the rhyme of "peds" for short, while most of its students, I think, call it Trinity for short). He was born in Quebec, shepherded a Baptist church in B.C. and now lives in Chicago. (Well, not quite, Deerfield, Illinois.) The biography of him that I linked to above was written by Andreas Köstenberger and is thoroughly enjoyable. It's short, descriptive and enlightening. Piper once said that he recommends choosing one author and devoting yourself to reading everything he's written. (Piper's chosen Jonathan Edwards.) I might choose Carson. Carson is so well renowned that he became the subject of a satire blog on the subject of him. (Of which, I particularly enjoyed, this entry involving Paige Patterson.) I could go on about Dr. Carson, but I'll stop here.

Finally, I come to Dr. Wayne Grudem. The two things that I think Grudem is known best for are his Systematic Theology textbook and his fight for a complementarian view of gender presented from the Bible. Allow me to tell one quick story about him. He too, along with Carson, used to teach at TEDS. Then his wife, Margaret, got in a bad car accident and she was in severe pain, much of the time. He spoke at a few conferences in Phoenix and his wife noted that the pain wasn't nearly as bad in the heat of Arizona, as it was in the Windy City. So, he stepped down from his post at TEDS and took a post at the much less prestigious seminary, Phoenix Seminary. I really admire him for putting his wife's care above his own reputation.

1 comments Wednesday, August 13, 2008

I was surprised to see that I hadn't even put a part 2 on this series yet, two and a half months following the original post. Hopefully I'll keep that in mind to put out a third part in short order.

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This is short, but important. At some point while I was out west for the past three weeks, Desiring God posted a question and answer segment where Piper discussed how much the Christian mind should look to the Bible to direct what policies should be emphasized in the political realm. Let me quote the thrust of what he says:

[T]he Bible shows that we should not turn all of its commands into law. So [the] question boils down to, Well, which ones then? ... The way it works practically is that for the laws where we can get overwhelming consensus in the culture we're going to use coercion [(i.e., get the authorities to intervene)].
I don't entirely agree with that. It's very helpful as a beginning point for thinking about the issue. My commitment is to, within the next week, write a post on where and why I disagree with it. Maybe I'll write more than that.

1 comments Tuesday, July 15, 2008

I listened again to Dr. Mohler's DTS (i.e., the Dallas Theological Seminary) lectureship on The New Atheism (here is the audio of parts 1, 2, 3 and 4) yesterday. As should be unsurprising, much of the discussion surrounded evolution. As I was thinking about atheism, I know that one of the loudest trumpets blowing for the end of faith - at least the end of faith in Christianity - is for the maltreatment of homosexuality. But as I mused on how homosexuality fit into evolution, I realized that they seem incompatible. In evolutionary thought, there is only the survival of the fittest. Since homosexuals are unable to reproduce, it seems like a disadvantageous so-called adaptation. Why are the atheists so eager to accept this behaviour when it is clearly counter productive to the advancement of the species (if you adamantly believe in evolution)? It doesn't make sense.
 
And homosexuality doesn't fit into Judaism ("If a man lies with a male as with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination; they shall surely be put to death; their blood is upon them," Le. 20:13), Christianity ("Do not be deceived: neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men who practice homosexuality, nor thieves, nor the greedy, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God," 1Co. 6:9, 10) or Islam ("We also sent Lut: He said to his people: Do ye commit lewdness such as no people in creation (ever) committed before you? For ye practice your lusts on men in preference to women: ye are indeed a people transgressing beyond bounds. And his people gave no answer but this: they said, 'Drive them out of your city: these are indeed men who want to be clean and pure!'" Qur'an 7:80-82).
 
I'm not trying to be harsh. I simply don't understand why atheists contend so much with theists over the issue of homosexuality. I think that it is tragic that sexual sins can be so alluring that so many reject authoritative theism (e.g., a religion that follows its sacred text literally, in contrast to liberal theism) on the basis of their sexual sins (e.g., Christopher Hitchens says that theism is responsible for sexual repression, homosexuals saying that the Bible is a hate text).

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I read this article yesterday on an issue that's being put on the ballot in the American election in November.

A proposal to define a fertilized human egg as a person will land on Colorado's ballot this November, marking the first time that the question of when life begins will go before voters anywhere in the nation.
This is such great news for the American people and the future unborn babies in Colorado. Pray that the first step in granting the unborn personhood in the United States would come to pass in November (if not sooner). Please, please, please pray that the people of Colorado would give the unborn personhood in Colorado this coming election season.
As a note on the issue, Focus on the Family has said that they're not in favour of this move. They still recognize that abortion was unconstitutionally given to American people in Roe v. Wade, and that their (Focus on the Family) primary goal is to get enough justices on the bench of the Supreme Court who agree that the Roe v. Wade ruling was unconstitutional.
Either way you go, pray for the rights of the unborn. As the vast majority of baby fetuses diagnosed with down syndrome are being aborted (80%) in North America and Europe, as little girls are being aborted in Asia because families want to have a boy because he'll bring them more respect than a girl, as abortion in the US gets targeted at black families ("Although black women constitute only 6% of the population, they comprise 36% of the abortion industry's clientele") pray that God would save the unborn.

4 comments Monday, July 14, 2008

(Unnecessary introduction.)
Mark Dever is probably the popular figure I relate most to right now. I agree with almost all of his theology (he's pushing for his church not to baptize people until they turn 18, where I only see the command in Scripture to make disciples and baptize them [Mt. 28:19], not, "Go and convert 'em and then wait a decade to dunk 'em" as pragmatic as that may sound). He and I are Calvinists, complimentarians, continualists weary of charismatics, and baptists. As baptists, we agree that "the local church is the hope of the world." We agree that the local church should be elder-led and congregationally-ruled. We agree that the normative pattern of the local church should be having one Sunday morning worship service where all of your members are in attendance. We agree that the Gospel should be presented in every sermon.

The guy jokes with paedo-baptists about baptism. He loves politics. He loves history. He sees the importance of evangelism. He graciously disagrees with people and doesn't turn polemics into feuds. The sort of conversations that he pursues in his 9Marks Interviews make me think that he and I would have a ton to talk about (consider especially his interview with Mac). I admire and respect the man so much. Certainly enough to praise him, in depth, in two different posts. I thank God that He has blessed the Church with Dr. Dever.

(Transition to body.)
This makes me think about how much I would love to have his job (I think; it's really easy to covet something while you are unaware of the downsides of the object of desire). He gets to preach the Bible. He gets to train leaders. He gets to interview the smartest men in evangelicalism. He went to seminary at Southern (the number one recommended seminary by Piper), not even to mention, at the same time as Mohler! (Although, that's of the past and I wouldn't get to relive it if I just took Dever's job.) He has politicians who go to his church and ask him for time up front to talk about elections. Of course, he says, "no," to them. But he's in a hot spot of activity having a church in Washington, D.C. That's the best of both worlds, ministry and politics. Kind of like the Christian Embassy, but better, since it has a focus on training pastors as well.

(The meat of the post.)
On the subject of politics, I wanted to make an observation. In the U.S., there have been forty two presidents (lists often say forty three, but I am not counting the multiplicity of Grover Cleveland), among whom, fifteen were at one point senators and seventeen were at one point governors. That said, if I had the prime minister's office as my ambition, the first thing I would try to do is become premier of one of the provinces. That just doesn't really happen in Canada, though. I wonder why. The closest thing in my lifetime that resembled it was Mike Harris. He had just resigned from being premier of Ontario (to try to work on his marriage) and my father kept telling me to watch, that he would someday run for prime minister. In fact, in my first year, I used to write under my name in all my emails either "Bush '04" or "Harris '05". Obviously, that never happened. I still wonder why. Anyway, that would be my advice to an aspiring politician in the making. Go become the premier of a province. If you fail, oh well, you've only destroyed a province, not the country. But if you succeed, especially in Ontario, you'll be remembered come the day you run for federal office.

(Epilogue.)
When I was in second year I said that I wanted to STINT in South America. (I hadn't told many people this, probably two. I wonder whether they remember.) From my third year to mid-fifth year, I wanted to plant a church in Muslim Africa. Though that still appeals to me, Tanz-STINT not happening this year coupled with me committing to four years in Quebec have left my vision for Africa waning these days. I may see a shift in my future plans year again. Maybe I'll plant a church in Gatineau (or take on a pastorate at a church in need of its own reformation, like what Dever, MacArthur and Piper have done at the churches they're now at) and see whether the Lord grants me a ministry to politicians.

In Christ there are so many blessed opportunities. One of the few (maybe many, e.g., God's glory [Rm. 9:22, 23]) good things about the world being so fallen is that there are endless directions you can go in order to help fulfill the Great Commission. Pray that I would go in the direction that I can have the greatest impact for Christ, be challenged most in my faith, and be most faithful.

0 comments Friday, July 11, 2008

Al Mohler has been asked (question begins at 21:30 in the audio) before how he would argue the inerrancy of the Scriptures to an atheist. He came out and said that it will become a circular argument. The Bible says that it's perfect. That's how we know. The Westminster Confessions say, "And the heavenliness of the matter [the Word of God], the efficacy of the doctrine, the majesty of the style, the consent of all the parts, the scope of the whole (which is, to give all glory to God), the full discovery it makes of the only way of man's salvation, the many other incomparable excellencies, and the entire perfection thereof, are arguments whereby it does abundantly evidence itself to be the Word of God: yet notwithstanding, our full persuasion and assurance of the infallible truth and divine authority thereof, is from the inward work of the Holy Spirit bearing witness by and with the Word in our hearts." That's very circular to a non-Christian who doesn't believe in the Holy Spirit. But, Mohler says not to give up there. He says to remember that our existence is an unproven assumption.

The Bible is able to testify to itself. If someone asks why he should trust the Bible Al Mohler and Russell Moore, probably John MacArthur, would say to just read it and see for himself that it is perfect. I really believe this is true with all my heart. I believe that the Bible is amazingly harmonious (i.e., despite having more than forty authors written over more than a millenium and a half it has no contradictions and has one over-arching message). I think the way that the Bible reports on the fulfillment of prophecy are great for affirming its divineness. Especially as my testimony bears witness to, I believe that reading the Bible can bring faith (Rm. 10:17).

As an aside before moving on from this point, I am not saying that other outside evidence of the greatness of the Scriptures is to be avoided (e.g., the number of manuscripts, the perfect alignment with historical events and archaeology, etc.), I just don't think that they convert a person. God does through His Son's Gospel. We must, however, be ready to stand up for Truth (1P. 3:15).

Now, moving on, I was listening to a Mark Dever interview with Josh Harris (who Kissed Dating Goodbye) and Mohler on dating. Mohler was talking about how some men are called to celibacy, either short term while fulfilling a certain role such as military service in a foreign nation, or long term. As an example of someone called to long term celibacy he described how in 2002 he was called by a missionary organization and asked for the names of seven single men he would recommend from his seminary. I thought that was one of the most exciting things that I'd heard in a long time. He was talking about how these men would be sent off to one of the Stan countries (e.g., Kyrgyzstan, Tajikistan) and that they might not come back, so it would be irresponsible to send a married man.

First, I'm single, so I thought about how great it would be if I could be used in that capacity. But, more alluring was the idea of going to a place where the Bible's never been read before - not to mention, never had its reputation smeared before. What do you think the average person would say if you (a Christian) asked him to read it and see what he thought of it? He'd probably say (though, perhaps not in this language) that there's no point since 1) it's ancient and doesn't apply today, 2) it's not even accurate, 3) it was written by people not God, so it's not even Truth, and 4) that it's too boring, all that, without even having read it. It would be so great to go to a place and let them read the Word and hear God speak.

Upon writing this, I've now decided that along with my daily petitions for God to save my parents and brother, I am going to pray that He would get them reading His Word, before or after He saves them. I would love for my brother to read the book of Romans and talk with me about a Christian worldview of war and peace. I would love for my mother to read 1 Peter and ask me what it means to cast all her anxieties upon Him. I would love for my father to read Philippians and the Gospel of John and ask me how the most power being in existence could bow down and help someone less worthy than Himself. The Bible is so applicable today! Let me cut myself off before I start criticizing the seeker sensitive movement for their abadonment of the Word, to say that alongside what I said my family could find for themselves to read in their, they could also read about God's love and salvation, and be saved. The message of the Bible is their hope, but not only theirs, but that of the whole world.

Thanks for reading/skimming my rant on how great the Word is and how evil/ignorant the world is.

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I mentioned a Dever interview with Harris and Mohler. I highly, highly, highly recommend it for singles and couples; for all Christians. There's one thought in there, put forward by Mohler, that I've never thought of before, nor heard of it before. He actually says that adulthood should be equated with marriage except in the special cases. That boys should not only be raised to be men, but to be husbands and fathers. If for no other reason, listen to it to hear Mohler laugh at the question of Christian online dating and give an unequivocating, "No."

1 comments Monday, July 7, 2008

(This post is the result of the comment thread of a post that Jer made on his blog.)

As for the one who is weak in faith, welcome him, but not to quarrel over opinions. One person believes he may eat anything, while the weak person eats only vegetables. Let not the one who eats despise the one who abstains, and let not the one who abstains pass judgment on the one who eats, for God has welcomed him. Who are you to pass judgment on the servant of another? It is before his own master that he stands or falls. And he will be upheld, for the Lord is able to make him stand.

One person esteems one day as better than another, while another esteems all days alike. Each one should be fully convinced in his own mind. The one who observes the day, observes it in honor of the Lord. The one who eats, eats in honor of the Lord, since he gives thanks to God, while the one who abstains, abstains in honor of the Lord and gives thanks to God. (Romans 14:1-6)

Right here I think that Paul is talking about issues that are not areas of sin. Paul never in Romans 14 says that this case of avoiding food is wrong, nor does he ever say that taking a single day every week and setting it apart to the Lord as a Sabbath is a sin. Furthermore, Paul gives permission in this chapter for it to be done. Before explaining what I think is really at the heart of Romans 14, let me give the illustration I typically use when trying to explain this passage.

Is kissing a sin? I believe that the Scriptures are authoritative and that they are sufficient to guide me into all godliness (2Ti. 3:16, 17), and they never say that kissing is wrong. That said, they say not to lust (Mt. 5:28) and I, as a single, am given the boundary not to have premarital sex (i.e., sexual immorality, e.g., in 1 Thessalonians 4:3). So, to protect myself from sinning, I have decided that I am not going to make out with my girlfriend (provided I someday have one) before we get married. However, for those Christian singles who are able to kiss without it leading to lust or sexual intercourse are not sinning and I don't think they are in the wrong. (This applies to BGR, so, given that I've never been in a relationship before, I am speaking without experience. Feel free to offer advice in the comments if you think that my conviction is wrong. But, while it is true at this moment, it is primarily used here as an illustration.)

Piper's illustration (at time 37:52, one of the few instances I'll refer you to an audio resource of Piper when a written counterpart is available) is that of elbows on the table at the dinner table. Clearly, the Bible doesn't speak on this, yet there can be disagreement.

I think that my illustration has done most of the work, so I'm going to finish off by looking at the text. There are two sides, each possibly saying the position they each hold to is of Gospel concern. For example, the strong side might say, "By saying you may not eat meat you're adding to 'faith alone'." Or the other side (the weak) might say, "By eating meat you're sinning intentionally without repentance. You might not be saved." They're each doing what they're doing within the bounds of "by grace alone, through grace alone", otherwise Paul would have rebuked them because all sin is serious. So they're each wrong. They're each simply trying to protect themselves from sinning.

This is called the believer's freedom. The Jews were heaping rules on top of what Moses had commanded to protect themselves from sinning and then they enforced these too. Christ decries this in Matthew 12 when the Pharisees accuse the disciples of breaking the Sabbath by picking grain to eat from a field on the Sabbath. Considering that Jesus kept the Sabbath perfectly and didn't accuse His disciples of having broken the Sabbath, they probably weren't in the wrong. Jesus decries them adding to the Law. So obey God when He says something's sin in the Word. If it's not there, it's not sin. Though, be warned, "not all things are helpful" (1Co. 6:12). For more on this, I found this article written by Mark Dever very helpful.

A word, now, on the application of this passage. I've given two already. Don't judge faithful, obedient Christian singles who kiss. And don't judge the person who eats with his elbows on the table at dinner because he doesn't know that's a custom. I don't think that this applies to doctrine. Doctrine matters. God didn't ordain, "Thou shalt not eat with thy elbows on the table." He did ordain that women not hold leadership in a local church. (Or He didn't, one may argue. I'm certainly in the position to believe that the Bible goes with the former on this.) This is something that the Bible speaks on. We still need to strive to honour God within the context of His revealed Word. Doctrine matters. Refine yourself, and renew your mind. Now, you shouldn't let doctrine divide (i.e., cause you to call those who disagree with you unbelievers), but don't let believer's freedom let you become apathetic to doctrinal Truth.